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    Happy Darwin Day!
(Credit: Reddit user “lostintransit”)

    Happy Darwin Day!

    (Credit: Reddit user “lostintransit”)

     
  2. It’s really funny, I’ve been asked multiple times by religious people (including in my family) what ‘purpose’ or ‘meaning’ life has without a higher power. It was maybe the single most important moment in my life when I realised that my life means an infinite amount more if a god doesn’t exist. Seriously, the odds of me ever having existed are immensely small yet here I am, typing on a computer, and having my thoughts read by people all over the world. What could be more miraculously lucky than just being alive. My life means something because I am my experiences. I have a mind that can love and hurt and experience an entire world. The meaning and purpose is what I decide it is. I get to decide what makes me happy and live my life in that way. What could be more meaningful? Surely anyone would prefer that to the auditioning process of a life seeking closeness to god.
     
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  4. Hubris

    Should God exist, in final days,

    when Earth at last rolls to a stop

    and trembles, ancient, tattered, stays

    and all the graves are lifted up,

    then I will come before your God

    and, eyes without a blink, will stand.

    My gaze will burn through his facade,

    and He will shake in fear of Man.

    And if he dares to damn the souls

    of those without the faith he needs

    without regard for lives so full

    of light, I call it jealousy.

    Then when the blinded grip of Fate

    claws at my back, I will not go,

    but glare into the very face

    of God, and I will whisper, “No.”

    “For who are You, that You judge me?

    The Slaughterer of untouched youth,

    the source of serpent, apple, greed—

    all evil oozes from your wounds!”

    “And who am I, that I should lie

    stricken and mute before You? No!

    I name you tyrant, genocide!

    Into the jaws of Hell you go!”

    So on that fabled final day,

    I will not kneel before your Lord,

    but speak my mind and have my say

    and leave under my own accord.

    Then with a sigh, He will collapse,

    return to dust, and float away.

    For robbed at last of thunderclaps,

    your god will have no words to say.

    -JF

     
  5. Anonymous asked: Enjoying the humor, positivity, and smarts of your blog. I am not "out" as an atheist as I think it would hurt some family members too much and ostracize me in my community. What is it like to be yourself? How did you do it? Consequences? While my husband thinks as I do, we can't talk openly in front our our children because their grandparents would "find out". It's frustrating.

    Thanks! Truthfully, I don’t think many of my friends know, nor would they care. I’m a student at a remarkably tolerant university, and I am fortunate to have very accepting peers. My father’s side of the family is somewhat religious, but they don’t publicize it or push it on us.

    I was raised in a completely secular environment. My parents never spoke of religion and responded with very neutral answers to my childish questions about life and death. They taught me to do what was right for the sake of doing right, not because a deity or ancient book said so. Religion was just never a part of my life.

    I reached the logical conclusion and “discovered” (so to speak) my atheism at around 14, largely on my own. I’ve only discussed it with a few of my closest friends, but I don’t try to hide it or anything. I even list “atheism” as my religion on Facebook. It’s never given me any trouble. I know that this may change in the future, but that’s something that I’m prepared to deal with.

    I’m sorry that you can’t speak openly to your children about your views. However, I think that my experience shows that if you simply teach children to act morally, encourage them to think critically, and allow them to ask questions and reach conclusions on their own - without preaching any kind of religious or non-religious ideas to them - most of them will come to agree with your views. But I would be wary of family members or friends trying to impress their own views upon your children.

    Anyway, I hope my rambling has been somewhat informative. Best of luck with the kids and family, and I hope this blog can be an ongoing source of solidarity for you and your husband.

    -A

     
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  8. Is man nearly a mistake of God’s? Or God merely a mistake of man’s?
    — Friedrich Nietzsche
     
  9. RIP Christopher Hitchens (1949-2011)

    RIP Christopher Hitchens (1949-2011)

     
  10. A response to “Keep Christ in Christmas.”

    A response to “Keep Christ in Christmas.”